One of the things I've learnt since moving to Bali is that not everyone sees dogs the same way I do.

One of the things I've learnt since moving to Bali is that not everyone sees dogs the same way I do. To me, they're family. They're couch hogs. Bed stealers. Professional snack inspectors. And in Ned's case, a giant fluffy marshmallow who thinks he's a lap dog despite weighing nearly 20 kilos. So it still catches me off guard when people cross the street, stop in their tracks or give us a really wide berth on our morning walks. At first I wondered if they thought Ned looked intimidating. Then I realised... it's not really about Ned. Growing up in Australia, most of us know dogs as pets. But here in Bali, many people have had very different experiences. There are still stray dogs around, and while most are harmless, some can be territorial. Over the years I've found myself in a few situations where I've had to step in and shield the kids from dogs that weren't quite so friendly. If those were the kinds of experiences you grew up with, you'd probably be cautious too. It's one of those little reminders that our life experiences shape the way we see the world. The funny thing is, Ned has absolutely no idea he's considered scary. He'd happily trade his dignity for a head scratch from a complete stranger. Which is why I have such a soft spot for the cafés around Bali that welcome dogs. Not just tolerate them, but genuinely embrace them. This little gated area has become one of Ned's favourite post walk coffee stops. It's tucked away from the main restaurant, so everyone can enjoy their morning exactly how they're comfortable. Ned gets a shady spot to lie down. I get a coffee. And every now and then, someone who's been watching him from a distance will slowly wander over for a pat. Those are my favourite moments. Because nine times out of ten they leave saying... "Oh... he's actually really gentle." Have you noticed different attitudes towards dogs when you've travelled? I'd love to know where you've experienced it.